The drawback of day game is that there is usually a smaller volume of people, which means fewer opportunities for you to practice and succeed. However, it can still be worth your time to get experience learning how to talk to girls in different environments. Plus, it’s the main way that you’ll meet women on a day-to-day basis as you’re going about your life.
Some good day game venues include:
- Art galleries & museums
- Parks
- Malls
- Coffee shops
During day game, people are often busy running to and from work, running errands, or simply going about their day. Because of this, you’ll use time constraints frequently in a day game. For instance, you might open by saying, “I need to meet up with my friend in just a second, but I wanted to come say…?”. This takes the time pressure off the girl, making her more receptive to your approach.
Unlike bars and clubs, daytime settings are not typically designed to meet strangers. Because of this, you will sometimes catch girls off guard when you approach them during the daytime. You can soften this effect by acknowledging the situation and saying something like “this is really random” or “I saw you from down the street and I had to come say hi”.
Use the COMPLIMENT, QUALIFY, CLOSE system. (CQC)
Compliment – First, you compliment the girl on something about her style, appearance, or vibe. This lets her know immediately what your intentions are, which makes getting the number easier.
For example, you might say, “Hey, this is super random… I have to meet my friends in a second, but I wanted to come let you know… You’re absolutely adorable!”
You’ll notice that, in addition to a compliment, the above opener also includes a time constraint and an acknowledgment of the situation.
Instead of complimenting her directly, you could also imply the compliment, like so:
“Listen, I saw you here, and I had to come over and meet you. Hi, I’m [Your Name]”.
Qualify – Now that you’ve given her a bit of your interest, it’s time to take a step back and make her prove to you that she’s worthy of your continued attention.
You can do this by qualifying her as we discussed earlier.
This will get her to start chasing you, which is a surefire way to turn on a woman.
For example, you could say “tell me something interesting about yourself” or “what’s something you’re passionate about?”
Once she answers, you can reward her by letting her know you appreciate her answer, or by relating to the topic with your own experiences.
Then, you can rinse and repeat the qualification process in order to continue finding out if she’s “cool enough” to hang out with you.
Close – Day game approaches offer you the unique opportunity to go on instant dates. This is when you go together from the place you met to a second location such a coffee or ice cream shop. A simple way to transition into an instant date is to say something like, “My favorite ice cream shop is right around the corner, I was about to grab a cone. Come with.”
If she’s unable to go on an instant date for whatever reason, you can simply set up a day 2 instead and get her phone number.